Testament und Erbfolge Regeln

Kirsten Isler (KI) by Kirsten Isler (KI)
01.01.2025
Testament und Erbfolge Regeln

Why inheritance rules are important for grandparents

Understanding inheritance rules is one of the most important decisions you can make as grandparents to secure your grandchildren long-term. When you know the legal inheritance, you can consciously decide whether you want to create a will to set your wishes for your grandchildren's future. A will gives you the opportunity to determine exactly how your assets should be distributed after your death and to ensure that your grandchildren are optimally provided for.

For your grandchildren, understanding inheritance rules means not only financial security, but also clarity and planning certainty. When you put your wishes in writing, you give your grandchildren the assurance that you have thought of them and that their future is important to you. This clarity can help your grandchildren cope better with grief and at the same time gives them the security that their future is secured.

Understanding inheritance rules is also a way to document your values and your love for your grandchildren. You can not only bequeath material things, but also record wishes and ideas for your grandchildren's future. This personal touch makes a will more than just a legal document – it becomes a sign of your care and connection with your grandchildren.

Creating security for your grandchildren

When you understand inheritance rules and create a will, you create a solid foundation for your grandchildren's future. You can determine how your assets should be divided and ensure that your grandchildren receive a fair share. This is especially important if you have multiple grandchildren or if you want certain grandchildren to be particularly considered.

A will also gives your grandchildren the security that their future is planned. When you determine how your assets should be distributed, your grandchildren can plan better and know what they can rely on. This planning certainty is particularly valuable for young people who are still at the beginning of their lives and can particularly benefit from financial support.

Through a will, you can also ensure that your grandchildren are not overlooked by other heirs. When you clearly formulate your wishes, you ensure that your grandchildren receive their rightful share and that your decisions are respected. This clarity protects your grandchildren from possible disputes and gives them the assurance that you have thought of them.

Clarity about legal inheritance

Legal inheritance comes into effect if you have not created a will. It regulates who inherits your assets and in what order. When you understand legal inheritance, you can consciously decide whether this regulation corresponds to your wishes or whether you want to create a will to particularly consider your grandchildren.

Without a will, your heirs must follow legal inheritance, which may not correspond to your wishes. This can lead to dissatisfaction and disputes that burden your family and can put your grandchildren in difficult situations. A will helps to avoid such conflicts and gives all parties clarity.

Legal inheritance only considers your grandchildren if their parents have already passed away. If you want your grandchildren to inherit directly, regardless of whether their parents are still alive, you must create a will. This possibility gives you the freedom to set your wishes for your grandchildren's future.

Basics of legal inheritance

Legal inheritance in Germany is divided into orders. First order heirs are your descendants, i.e., your children and their descendants (your grandchildren). Second order heirs are your parents and their descendants (your siblings and their children). Third order heirs are your grandparents and their descendants (your uncles, aunts, cousins).

If you are married or in a registered life partnership, your partner inherits alongside first order heirs. The spouse receives half of the inheritance if children are present, or the entire inheritance if no children are present. This regulation can be changed through a will.

It is important that legal inheritance only considers your grandchildren if their parents have already passed away. If you want your grandchildren to inherit directly, even if their parents are still alive, you must create a will. This possibility gives you the freedom to set your wishes for your grandchildren's future.

First order heirs

First order heirs are your descendants, i.e., your children and their descendants (your grandchildren). If you have children, they inherit in equal shares. If one of your children has already passed away, their descendants (your grandchildren) inherit that child's share.

If you have multiple children, all children inherit in equal shares. If one of your children has already passed away, their descendants (your grandchildren) inherit that child's share. This regulation ensures that all your descendants receive a fair share of the inheritance.

If you have no children but have grandchildren, they only inherit if their parents have already passed away. If you want your grandchildren to inherit directly, even if their parents are still alive, you must create a will. This possibility gives you the freedom to set your wishes for your grandchildren's future.

Second order heirs

Second order heirs are your parents and their descendants (your siblings and their children). These only inherit if there are no first order heirs. If you have children or grandchildren, they inherit before second order heirs.

If your parents have already passed away, your siblings inherit in equal shares. If one of your siblings has already passed away, their descendants (your nieces and nephews) inherit that sibling's share.

This regulation is usually less relevant for grandparents, as they typically have children or grandchildren. However, if you have no children or grandchildren, your siblings or their children can inherit.

Third order heirs

Third order heirs are your grandparents and their descendants (your uncles, aunts, cousins). These only inherit if there are no first or second order heirs. If you have children, grandchildren, parents, or siblings, they inherit before third order heirs.

If your grandparents have already passed away, your uncles and aunts inherit in equal shares. If one of your uncles or aunts has already passed away, their descendants (your cousins) inherit that uncle's or aunt's share.

This regulation is usually less relevant for grandparents, as they typically have children or grandchildren. However, if you have no closer relatives, your more distant relatives can inherit.

Will as an alternative to legal inheritance

A will gives you the opportunity to change legal inheritance and set your wishes for the distribution of your assets. When you create a will, you can determine exactly who inherits your assets and in what amount. This possibility gives you the freedom to set your wishes for your grandchildren's future.

A will is especially important if you want your grandchildren to inherit directly, even if their parents are still alive. Legal inheritance only considers your grandchildren if their parents have already passed away. If you want your grandchildren to inherit independently of their parents, you must create a will.

A will also gives you the opportunity to set special wishes for the use of the inheritance. For example, you can determine that the inheritance should be used for your grandchildren's education or that certain assets, such as a house or property, should remain in the family. These regulations can help you ensure that your assets are used as you wish.

Advantages of a will

A will gives you the opportunity to change legal inheritance and set your wishes for the distribution of your assets. When you create a will, you can determine exactly who inherits your assets and in what amount. This possibility gives you the freedom to set your wishes for your grandchildren's future.

A will also creates clarity and helps avoid disputes among heirs. When you put your wishes in writing, there are no ambiguities about how your assets should be distributed. This clarity is especially important if you have multiple heirs or if family relationships are complex.

A will is also a way to explain and justify your decisions. When you record in your will why you made certain decisions, you can avoid misunderstandings and help your heirs understand your wishes. This transparency can help your family stay harmonious even after your death.

Considering your grandchildren in the will

If you want to consider your grandchildren in your will, you have various options. You can directly appoint your grandchildren as heirs, assign them certain assets, or give them a share of the total estate. The best solution depends on your personal situation and wishes.

It is important that you also consider your children's compulsory portion rights. Your children generally have a right to a compulsory portion, even if you appoint your grandchildren as heirs. You cannot completely disinherit your children unless there are special circumstances that justify disinheritance. If you want to particularly consider your grandchildren, you should discuss this with your children.

You can also determine that your grandchildren can only access their inheritance at a certain time, for example when they reach the age of majority. Until then, a guardian or trustee can manage the inheritance for your grandchildren. This regulation can be especially useful if your grandchildren are still young and you want to ensure that the inheritance is managed responsibly.

Understanding compulsory portion rights

Compulsory portion rights are legally protected claims of certain persons to a minimum share of the inheritance. These rights cannot be completely circumvented by a will. When you understand compulsory portion rights, you can consciously decide how you want to distribute your assets while respecting the rights of your relatives.

Your children generally have a right to a compulsory portion, even if you want to disinherit them in your will. The compulsory portion is half of the legal inheritance share. If you want to disinherit your children, you must explicitly state this in your will, and even then your children still have a right to their compulsory portion, unless there are special circumstances that justify complete disinheritance.

Your grandchildren generally have no direct right to a compulsory portion. They only inherit if their parents have already passed away or if you appoint them as heirs in your will. If you want your grandchildren to receive a larger share, you can determine this in your will while respecting your children's compulsory portion rights.

Who is entitled to a compulsory portion

Your children generally have a right to a compulsory portion, even if you want to disinherit them in your will. The compulsory portion is half of the legal inheritance share. If you have two children and want to disinherit both, both children have a right to one quarter of the inheritance each as a compulsory portion.

Your spouse also has a right to a compulsory portion if you are married or in a registered life partnership. The spouse's compulsory portion is half of the legal inheritance share. If you want to disinherit your spouse, you must explicitly state this in your will, and even then your spouse still has a right to their compulsory portion.

Your grandchildren generally have no direct right to a compulsory portion. They only inherit if their parents have already passed away or if you appoint them as heirs in your will. If you want your grandchildren to receive a larger share, you can determine this in your will while respecting your children's compulsory portion rights.

Calculating the compulsory portion

The compulsory portion is calculated based on the legal inheritance share. If you have two children and want to disinherit both, both children have a right to one quarter of the inheritance each as a compulsory portion. The legal inheritance share of each child would be half of the inheritance, and the compulsory portion is half of that, i.e., one quarter.

If you are married and have two children, your spouse inherits half of the inheritance, and your children each inherit one quarter. If you want to disinherit your spouse, your spouse has a right to a compulsory portion of one quarter of the inheritance. If you want to disinherit your children, both children have a right to one eighth of the inheritance each as a compulsory portion.

Calculating the compulsory portion can be complex, especially if you have multiple heirs or if your financial situation is complex. It is recommended to seek professional advice to ensure that you correctly consider compulsory portion rights and that your will meets all legal requirements.

Special situations in inheritance

In some situations, special regulations in inheritance are necessary. If you have multiple grandchildren, you must decide whether all grandchildren should be treated equally or whether certain grandchildren should receive a larger share. This decision should be based on your personal wishes and your family's situation.

If your grandchildren are still minors, you must also consider who should manage the inheritance for them until they reach the age of majority. You can appoint a guardian or trustee who manages the inheritance for your grandchildren. This regulation is especially important if your grandchildren are still young and you want to ensure that the inheritance is managed responsibly.

You can also set special wishes for the use of the inheritance. For example, you can determine that the inheritance should be used for your grandchildren's education or that certain assets, such as a house or property, should remain in the family. These regulations can help you ensure that your assets are used as you wish.

Treating multiple grandchildren equally

If you have multiple grandchildren, you can determine that all grandchildren should be treated equally. This means that each grandchild receives the same share of the inheritance. This regulation is especially useful if you want all your grandchildren to be treated equally and no one to be disadvantaged.

However, you can also determine that certain grandchildren should receive a larger share. For example, you can determine that grandchildren who are still minors or who need special support should receive a larger share. This decision is entirely up to you and should be based on your personal wishes and your family's situation.

If you have multiple grandchildren, it is important to clearly formulate and justify your decisions. When you explain why you made certain decisions, you can avoid misunderstandings and help your family stay harmonious even after your death. Open communication can help avoid disputes.

Inheritance with divorced or separated partners

If you are divorced or separated from your partner, your former partner generally no longer inherits, unless you have regulated this differently in a marriage contract or will. If you want your former partner not to inherit, you must explicitly state this in your will.

If you are divorced and have children, your children inherit the entire estate, unless you have created a will that provides for other regulations. If you want your grandchildren to inherit directly, even if their parents are still alive, you must create a will that determines this.

If you are separated from your partner but not yet divorced, your partner generally still inherits, unless you have regulated this differently in a will. If you want your partner not to inherit, you must explicitly state this in your will. This regulation can be especially important if you want your grandchildren to inherit directly.

Practical steps for estate planning

Estate planning begins with careful consideration of your wishes and situation. Take time to think about how you want to distribute your assets and which people you want to particularly consider. Write down your thoughts and discuss your plans with trusted people before making your final decision.

It is recommended to seek professional advice before creating a will. A notary or specialist lawyer for inheritance law can inform you about legal possibilities and help you create a will that meets all formal requirements and optimally implements your wishes. This advice is an investment in your grandchildren's future.

After creating your will, it is important to store it securely and review it regularly. Life circumstances can change, and it may be necessary to adjust your will. When you regularly review your will and update it as needed, you ensure that it always corresponds to your current wishes and that your grandchildren are optimally secured.

Considerations before creation

Before creating a will, you should take time to carefully consider your situation and wishes. Make a list of your assets and think about how you want to distribute them. Also think about which people you want to particularly consider and why.

It is also important to think about possible future developments. What happens if new grandchildren are born? What happens if your financial situation changes? What happens if relationships in your family change? These considerations can help you create a will that is also meaningful in the long term.

Discuss your plans with trusted people, for example with your partner, with a good friend, or with a professional advisor. A second opinion can help you see aspects you may have overlooked and can help you make an informed decision. These conversations can also help your wishes be better understood.

Using professional advice

It is highly recommended to seek professional advice before creating a will. A notary or specialist lawyer for inheritance law can inform you about legal possibilities, help you understand the various options, and ensure that your will meets all formal requirements.

Professional advice can also help you avoid unexpected problems. An experienced advisor can point out possible pitfalls and help you create a will that optimally implements your wishes while meeting all legal requirements. This investment in professional advice is an investment in your grandchildren's future.

When seeking advice, you should have all relevant information ready, for example a list of your assets, information about your family, and your wishes for the distribution of your assets. The better your advisor is informed about your situation, the better they can help you create a will that meets your needs.

Storing and updating the will

After creating your will, it is important to store it securely. A will should be stored in a safe place where it cannot be lost or damaged. You can store it at home in a safe, deposit it with a notary, or have it stored with a trusted family member or friend.

It is also important to regularly check whether your will still corresponds to your current wishes. Life circumstances can change, and it may be necessary to adjust your will. When you regularly review your will and update it as needed, you ensure that it always corresponds to your current wishes and that your grandchildren are optimally secured.

If you want to change your will, you can create a new will that replaces the old one, or you can change individual provisions. It is important that you destroy all copies of the old will to avoid confusion. If you have deposited your will with a notary, you should also inform the notary when you make changes.

Secure storage

A will should be stored in a safe place where it cannot be lost or damaged. You can store it at home in a safe, deposit it with a notary, or have it stored with a trusted family member or friend. It is important that the person who stores the will knows where it is and has access to it in case of your death.

If you deposit your will with a notary, it is stored in official custody and is particularly safe. The notary ensures that the will is not lost and that it is found in case of your death. This option is especially recommended if you want your will to be stored particularly safely.

You should also ensure that at least one trusted person knows where your will is located. If no one knows where your will is, it cannot be found in case of your death, and legal inheritance comes into effect. Therefore, inform at least one person you trust about the storage location of your will.

Regular review

It is important to regularly check whether your will still corresponds to your current wishes. Life circumstances can change, and it may be necessary to adjust your will. For example, new grandchildren can be born, your financial situation can change, or relationships in your family can develop.

A good rule of thumb is to review your will every three to five years or whenever important life events occur, such as the birth of a new grandchild, a change in your financial situation, or a change in your family. When you regularly review your will, you ensure that it always corresponds to your current wishes.

If you find that your will needs to be adjusted, you can create a new will that replaces the old one, or you can change individual provisions. It is important that you destroy all copies of the old will to avoid confusion. If you have deposited your will with a notary, you should also inform the notary when you make changes.

Frequently asked questions

Many grandparents have questions about inheritance and will creation, especially when it comes to considering their grandchildren. Here are answers to some of the most common questions that can help you make your decisions and ensure that your grandchildren are optimally secured.

A common question is whether grandchildren automatically inherit if their parents have already passed away. The answer depends on your situation: If you have a will that appoints your grandchildren as heirs, they inherit according to your wishes. If you have no will, legal inheritance applies, and grandchildren only inherit if their parents have already passed away.

Another common question is whether you can disinherit your children to benefit your grandchildren. The answer is that you cannot completely disinherit your children, as they have a right to a compulsory portion. However, you can determine that your grandchildren should receive a larger share while your children receive their compulsory portion. Professional advice can help you find the best solution for your situation.

Overview of inheritance orders

Order
Heirs
Inherits when
First order
Children and their descendants (grandchildren)
Always, if present
Second order
Parents and their descendants (siblings)
Only if no first order heirs
Third order
Grandparents and their descendants
Only if no first or second order heirs

Compulsory portion rights overview

Person
Compulsory portion
Note
Children
Half of legal inheritance share
Cannot be completely disinherited
Spouse
Half of legal inheritance share
In case of legal inheritance
Grandchildren
No direct compulsory portion
Only if parents deceased

Comparison: Will vs. legal inheritance

Aspect
Legal inheritance
Will
Grandchildren inherit directly
Only if parents deceased
Yes, if specified in will
Flexibility
None
Full flexibility
Clarity
Can lead to disputes
Creates clarity
Costs
None
Low to medium

Estate planning checklist

  • Think about your wishes for the distribution of your assets
  • Make a list of your assets
  • Think about which people you want to particularly consider
  • Inform yourself about legal inheritance
  • Discuss your plans with trusted people
  • Seek professional advice, for example from a notary
  • Create your will handwritten or have it notarized
  • Store your will securely
  • Inform trusted people about the storage location
  • Regularly review your will and adjust it as needed

Tips for considering your grandchildren

  • Directly appoint your grandchildren as heirs if you want them to inherit independently
  • Consider all grandchildren equally, unless there are special reasons for different treatment
  • Regulate guardianship for minor grandchildren
  • Determine at what age your grandchildren can access their inheritance
  • Discuss your plans with your children to avoid misunderstandings
  • Explain in your will why you made certain decisions
  • Consider your children's compulsory portion rights

Avoiding common mistakes

  • Avoid writing your will on the computer – it must be handwritten
  • Don't forget to include place and date
  • Don't forget to sign your will
  • Avoid having multiple contradictory wills
  • Destroy old wills when creating a new one
  • Inform trusted people about the storage location of your will
  • Don't forget to consider your children's compulsory portion rights

Legal inheritance schema

Legal InheritanceYouChild 1Child 2Grandchild 1Grandchild 2Grandchild 3Grandchild 4

Symbol for will and estate planning

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